He said he would leave. I agreed. It was mean of him not to leave. It was mean of him to leave and then come back. You are used to people not telling you the truth because you say things so bizarre that if they were to respond truthfully, it would be hurtful. I get that. But I ain't those people. Indeed, what might the outcome have been if people had responded to your outbursts truthfully, earlier? Might it have steered you differently? One can only wonder. But that is me being caring again, and I already learned my lesson once.