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My 8 year old son is finishing up 2nd grade and doesn't know the majority of his addition facts. He still uses his fingers to count. He gets extremely anxious when it comes time to practice his math facts. He has difficulty simply memorizing number facts. He is a bright and perceptive child, but he is more of an abstract thinker. He sees numbers as just right or wrong and that makes him anxious and he shuts down. I have tried flashcards, but he is not interested. I have used a yard stick for him to see the relationship between numbers up and down, and that helps, but he still can't take the leap to memorize the facts. He started using a calculator to quiz himself, which seemed to help a little (he loves gadgets and machines). I've tried doing a "problem of the day", so he doesn't get overwhelmed with too many facts at once, but by the next day, he says he "forgot" what we had worked on the day before. I am concerned that he will be lost in 3rd grade when they really start doing multiplication and division. It is starting to effect his self esteem and he says that "everyone else thinks it's so easy, and I feel like I'm in first grade." What can I do?
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